People have all of these assumptions on what it means to love another human being. But, these days people tend to love someone’s looks over their personality or they bail when things get tough. Some people don’t want to date someone long term because they may think that , that person will be toxic or maybe that person feels so negative about their self. But, if someone truly cares that person will accept that person for all that they are.
A true soul mate compliments that person, a mirror of what you lack. People can still have so much in common, but if the true vibes and chemistry is not there, than it will never work.