When your faced with an event that changes your forever, you can’t simply go back to the way you used to be. You try and convince yourself that someone out there understands or would even attempt too, but truth is all you can do is love that person. Pick them off of the ground. Shower them with things that like kind words, and simple gestures that show you care. You can simply forget the simple things that truly bring a relationship to beyond the depths. We get focused on creating a life, that we forget to actually eventually trust someone to stay in that life with us.